One of the most common reason to refer to a therapist – is found cheating. And almost always the woman is experiencing a double burden: to experience the fact of infidelity from a spouse, and feelings of guilt. Recently time in the company believed that the guilt for betraying her husband lies on his wife: that it made little effort to ensure that its hold on infidelity. Is this correct? In fact, the causes of adultery are much deeper. Consider the most common. The first reason.
The husband has an affair, so flattering to his vanity. For such men sex – the recognition or approval of its merits or the kind of match, which can and must win. He believes that the novel "side" raises his social status. This brings to mind an anecdote about a man differs from the boy's only worth of toys? Mistress – an expensive and prestigious "toy". Reason Two.
Many men come to regard outsiders simply because they are bored. If a man is tired from work and from the wife, playing sports, he has no hobbies, he usually has an affair. Mistress for him – the same hobby. Friends who spend time on a fishing trip, who at the stadium, and he – with his mistress. This is a unique way to relax, relieve stress and relax. And the man could in no way neglected duty towards his family and not to treat sex as a sport, not to change partners. Often these men mistress goes into a "sex friend".